Yup, that title about sums it up. I see beautiful Pintrest posts, beautiful people everywhere, and I wonder, how these people do it. Then I remind myself it’s a facade. As I sit typing on my knee with my non-perfect posture, in men’s boxers on a twenty-year old couch, (not the beautiful clean lily-white desks as seen on YouTube with perfectly assorted books and matching vases) It’s messy. I can’t keep up with the Jones’. I don’t even know the Jones’. The reality is I have never met anyone with the life of perfection, and if you are one of those people, I’d like to say I’m envious, but I’m not. I cannot imagine a life without the need for resilience and some moxie.
I’m bringing this topic up today because I feel that as a medium, I get to see first-hand that it’s the truth, that we are all more similar that we can even see. I have quite the eclectic clientele. You may even be surprised at all the different types of people that pay a visit to me; every type of professional, and every income bracket. What strikes me as interesting is how very similar they all are. Although we may see someone else’s life as perfect. Trust me, it isn’t. You are messy in one way or another in your life (ducking). I’m sorry this is the case, but I’ll bet that if you are reading this, you have emotions, you were born, and at some point you will die . Yeah, I know that seems so very basic, but every bit of that is messy.
So, let me boil it down a bit. First of all, did you know that humans travel in packs? No I don’t mean you and your group of friends as a pack, but my meaning here is that when you go to the store, there will be about ten other people that will have the same idea at the same time. I can recall as a young sixteen-year old working at the grocery store, a group comes in to the store together (unrelated) and check out at the same time. I use this now in order to avoid large lines! If I sense the crowd, I wait about fifteen minutes and avoid it. Also, every month, there is a specific name that tend to come to me in my work at the same exact time. I get “Theresa month” and then “Scott month”. We are all in synchronicity with one another.
People also tend to obsess about the same things, mostly themselves and how they don’t measure up in their own opinion. I cannot tell you how many loved one’s in spirit, have come to say that they didn’t like their nose, their body shape, or height. Yet they never have an issue showing these disliked features after they have passed. I’m guessing it’s because they are not, “bad” or “ugly” to them anymore, but chose to show these traits and actually, what make them known. All that you see as messy, is in fact, unique to you. It’s those things that make me happy when they come through in a reading. I feel Spirit is saying, “Embrace everything you’ve been given.”
So when I die, and someone goes to a medium to connect with me, I hope I can get that medium to say, ” She had animal hair on her clothes, she hated to do laundry or dishes, hated her hair, sang like a mad woman, talked to any living creature–well babbled if she was nervous or tired– she struggled but never gave up on a useless blog, -I’m hearing– “I love you” ad nauseum. She sure fell in the mud a lot, but never let anyone leave her home without a mud-covered hug. Okay, she was a true nut-job, but I cannot say she was dull! ”
Blessings & Love,
~Katie
Comments welcome from any species.